Grief Dialogues

A Tribute to those who served

An immersive, artful theater experience about loss, love, and what it means to be human. In Honor examines the cost of courage and the silence that follows the battlefield.

In Honor is a two-hour immersive event that gives voice to veterans and their families through theater, spoken word, music and shared storytelling. At its heart, In Honor invites us to honor loved ones and recognize the dignity and value of every life. With each production nationwide, we lift veterans into the spotlight they deserve and call on our communities to stand beside them.

Donations for In Honor through February 2026 will benefit  Cape and Islands Veterans Outreach Center, Big Nick’s Ride, and Josh’s Boots.

Elizabeth Coplan photography by Grace Copeland
Elizabeth Coplan, Producer
Michael Bud, Creative Producer & Director of Design
Michael Bud, Creative Producer & Director of Design

Production Team & Vision

In Honor emerged as a focused extension of Grief Dialogues’ immersive experience, In the Wake of Life. Grief Dialogue’s founder, Elizabeth Coplan, recognized the need for a military-centered adaptation to honor the distinct and complex nature of military loss. 

Military loss carries a unique weight. It is deeply personal, yet inherently communal. It touches families, fellow service members, and the broader fabric of our nation. At its core, In Honor creates space to remember lives sacrificed, to reflect on service and freedom, and to witness the lasting impact of dedication to country.

Under the direction of Dani Davis, In Honor has evolved into a living, immersive theatrical experience. Audiences are guided move through a curated landscape of short plays, poetry, music, sculpture, shared reflection, and personal stories. Blending warmth, pride, reverence, and moments of gentle humor, the production explores death, loss, and remembrance through what follows the battlefield — the silence, the echoes, the community that remains.

Each performance is carefully choreographed behind the scenes to create not just a program, but an atmosphere — one that fosters connection, dignity, and collective witnessing within the military community and beyond.

Michael Bud serves as Creative Producer and Director of Design for In Honor, shaping the audience experience from arrival through reflection. Working across promotion, staging, production design, and visual storytelling, he translates the project’s artistic and emotional vision into a cohesive immersive environment. His role supports both the creative flow of each performance and the deeper intention to witness, honor, and hold space for soldiers, veterans, and their families.

May 2025, Los Angeles, CA

A free, three-hour immersive event at the Ensemble Studio Theatre/LA  honoring our military and Veteran communities, especially those affected by the Los Angeles fires.

Sponsorship funds not used for production were donated to an organization that supports Veterans and families impacted by the LA wildfires. Attendees also had the opportunity to contribute to the foundation during the event.

SPECIAL GUEST:

Donations dedicated in honor or memory of someone had their names incorporated into the display of remembrance. 

Presented by: Elizabeth Coplan (Grief Dialogues), Leilani Squire (Returning Soldiers Speak), & Qwynn Galloway-Salazar (In Their Honor). Grief Dialogues and Returning Soldiers Speak are 501c3 designated and In Their Honor is an LLC. Elizabeth and Leilani were born and raised in military families. Qwynn, also known as Dr. Q, is a Veteran herself and the spouse of a combat Veteran.

November 2025: Hyannis, MA

Produced in association with Margaret  McCarthy and Maureen Finnerty – Bon Matin, Cape Repertory Theater, and the Hyannis Arts Hall. 

Proceeds to In Honor from November 2025 – February 2026 benefit Cape and Islands Veterans Outreach Center, Big Nick’s Ride, and Josh’s Boots.

This production was made possible by the generous support of Toby Leary Fine Woodworking, RA Martin Construction, and Starlight Group LLC

Our Honorary Committee: Sheriff Donna Buckley, Sheriff Barnstable County, Senator Julian Cyr, MA State Senator Cape & Islands, State Representative. Kip Diggs, 2nd Barnstable District, D.A. Robert Galibois, D.A. Barnstable County, State Representative Hadley Luddy, 4th Barnstable District, State Representative Thomas W. Moakley, Barnstable, Dukes, and Nantucket, James Seymour, (USN) Executive Director, Cape & Islands Veterans Outreach Center, Amanda Braga-Tipton, (USAR)Founder/Operator, Josh’s Boots, Chaplain (USAR), State Rep. Steve Xiarhos, Founder Big Nick’s Ride.

Executive Producers: Elizabeth Coplan, Dani Davis, Joseph Manning, Kim Roderiques, and Eric Weinberg (USN).

Playwrights: Art Devine (USAR), Ben Fortier (USMC),  Ian Ryan (USMC), and Leilani Squire.

Featuring: Amanda Braga-Tipton (USAR), and Steve Xiarhos.

With performances by: Parker Graf, Matthew Levesque, Sarah Jane Mason, The Monomoy Middle School Chorus, and The Nicholas G. Xiarhos Young Marines.

Starring: Art Devine, Macklin Devine, Jeffrey Doornbos, Sara Sneed, Izaak Van Der Wende, and Alison Weller.

Set/Lighting Design by: Tristan Di Vincenzo

Directed by: Dani Davis

Wall of Remembrance

Bert Bakey

Timothy M. Bell, Jr.

Eric J. Bernholtz

Sparky Berthiaume

Danny Bonfiglio

Kim Bowerman

James Victor Breidenbach

Malcoma Brown-Ekeogu

Zachary Brown

Robert (Bob) Burke

Hoyt Centers

Michael J. Cifuentes

Peter J. Coughlin

Wesley G. Davids

Fred Davis 

Dustin A. Derga

Christopher J. Dyer

Robert Eastman

Kenneth Ekeogu

Dr. Laurie P. Elwell

Nicholas B. Erdy

Grant B. Fraser

Cliff Fluck

Jonathan W. Grant

Jourdan L. Grez

Sean Grinley

Ernest Harrison

Elmer Hasse

Dr. Kate Hendricks-Thomas 

Eric Heyward

Harold Horntveit

John Hudson

Kristy Jackson

Sheila Marie Johnson

Donna Quinn Kaufman

Robert Kelly

Sharon Kent

Hubert Bailey Kincheon

David Kenneth J. Kreuter

Gene Long

Wallace Clifford Magathan, Jr

Arthur Mastrapa

Bill Melson

Kenneth Eugene Melson

Rodney Murray

Charles OBanion

James Edwin Oakley 

Gary Ostrom

 Bob Pahl

Jack Pitzer

Robert J. Pohlmann

Lester A. Probst

Mint Ralston

Aaron H. Reed

John Paul Roberts

Donna Mary Roberts

Christopher Rogers

Sonya Renee McClain Salazar 

Edward A. Schroeder II

Grandpa Sidney

Bud Sobin

Carroll Wayne Speights

Grant Robert Squire

Delbert Slaugh

Timothy Taylor

Demetrius Walker

Ensign Robert Waun

Anton White

Ron White

William B. Wightman

David N. Wimberg

Andre L. Williams

Clinton Wyatt

Dick Yeilding